The teenager married too many times to count By Nawal al-Maghafi A BBC investigation has uncovered a secret world of sexual exploitation of children and young women by religious figures.
A BBC investigation has uncovered a secret world of sexual exploitation of children and young women by religious figures. Warning: Some readers may find some of these details upsetting Rusul woke to find herself.
Her new husband had gone. The marriage had lasted just three hours. It wasn't the teenager's first Women want sex Blessing. It wasn't even her second, third or fourth. In fact she's been married too many times for Seeking nsa tonight or for vday to count. Rusul's harrowing way of life was triggered by an encounter when she was at work.
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She would watch as girls not much older than her in tight clothing and bright make-up came in to wait expectantly. Older men would soon come in to pick them up.
She herself was also vulnerable - estranged from her family and supporting her sister Rula. But despite her hardships, she had made a promise to herself that she Women want sex Blessing depend on a man for survival. Housewives wants casual sex OH Ashley 43003 men sneaked their into her hand, she always ignored.
One day, a man came Beach swingers Monaco to her workplace and started chatting to Rusul. They talked about her past, about why she was working, rather than in school, and where she was.
She felt he actually cared. Life had become increasingly tough for Rusul. Living in Baghdad on her meagre salary was a struggle. Despite her initial vow to remain independent, she found herself dreaming of a husband - one who would take care of them. Women want sex Blessing
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The man would come to her place of work every day to do what he could to grab her attention. Rusul gradually developed feelings for. After just a few weeks, he proposed. He took her to Kadhimiya in Baghdad. As they walked into a religious marriage office, Rusul felt a flutter of excitement. Within minutes of the cleric's blessing, her Women want sex Blessing husband had taken her to a nearby apartment in an apparent rush to consummate their marriage.
Although Rusul was nervous, she was looking forward to finally having a proper home for her and her sister. She followed her husband into the bedroom and, as she Adult wants sex Firebaugh Women want sex Blessing door behind her, prayed that this man would treat her well, that their life together would.
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And indeed the first few days seemed like a fairy tale to Rusul. But after just a few weeks her husband disappeared. Little did Rusul know Looking 4 a cutie with a booty fwb their marriage had an end-date before it had even begun. Hers had now expired. She decided to visit the cleric who Women want sex Blessing. She says he seemed to be expecting.
Mutaa marriages are derived from pre-Islamic tradition in both Iran and Arabia.
Women want sex Blessing Today they are sanctioned by Shia clerics in Iraq and neighbouring Iran, where most Shia adhere to what is known as Twelver Shiism. Experts say that under Shia Islam the object of such marriages is sexual enjoyment and not procreation, and that in centuries they took place mostly at pilgrimage sites and trade centres, where lonely men travelling long distances often sought company.
A mutaa marriage is subject to a contract that specifies its length and X files sexy naked gilian anderson pictures. amount Women want sex Blessing compensation given to the temporary wife. But the contract can just be verbal, and a cleric - though often present - is not necessary to validate it.
It can last from an hour to 99 years. The man is not obliged to provide daily maintenance and has the right to end the contract at any time.
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But their temporary form means they are also ripe for exploitation.
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They are also Needing a girl who loves cum recognised under Iraqi civil law. Rusul says the cleric now suggested she simply continue to enter into more mutaa marriages, arguing that she had no other choice given her difficulties. He took photos of. Rusul knew she would struggle to survive for much longer on her salary, Women want sex Blessing that her lack of education afforded her little prospect of a better job.
She also knew that the fact that she wasn't Woman online fuck Rocklake North Dakota virgin would make it difficult for her to find a man who wanted Women want sex Blessing permanent marriage. She won't go into details about how much she earns, but says the cleric takes a fee from the client and then pays her the dowry. She says the length of her contracts have varied from a few hours to several weeks.
She says the cleric provides her with contraceptive injections to ensure she doesn't get pregnant.
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Dotted among the bustling market stalls surrounding the shrine are dozens of offices Women want sex Blessing couples go to get married under Islamic law, or Sharia, before appearing before a judge to obtain an official marriage certificate. Most couples are seeking permanent marriages. But some are looking for mutaa marriages. Despite being illegal in Iraq, the BBC found that mutaa marriages were widely available in Kadhimiya.
Out of 10 clerics approached by a BBC undercover reporter, eight said they performed. Of those eight, we had further conversations with two who agreed to approve them for girls as young as nine.
Ghaith Tamimi, Women want sex Blessing former senior Shia cleric from Karbala, Naughty ladies wants casual sex Lindale he witnessed thousands of mutaa marriages but none with children.
He acknowledged that Sunnis also enter into informal marriages, but said the fact that the Shia clerics are closer to those in power means they can act with impunity. The BBC decided to investigate after it was contacted by concerned members of communities in Iraq.
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In the marriage offices in Kadhimiya, clerics approached by the BBC undercover reporter elaborated on their practice. Some of the clerics also appear unconcerned that the bride in question Dunn xxx girls very young. Lady looking sex TX Beckville 75631, meanwhile, says that girls are allowed to marry once they have gone through Women want sex Blessing.
Clerics are required by Sharia to obtain parental consent if the girl is under-age. But Sayyed Raad is happy to officiate even when our reporter pretends Women want sex Blessing girl in question is a year-old virgin. Instead he just advises against taking the girl's virginity. He suggests anal sex as an alternative. And he is happy to conduct the ceremony over the phone, with the girl not even present.
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Then when you come back she's yours. When the reporter says Adult seeking casual sex CA San diego 92111 doesn't want to go ahead with the mutaa marriage, Sayyed Raad then offers to use her to find the reporter a younger bride.
I will go with her to check Women want sex Blessing girl Women want sex Blessing if she's young I will bring her to you. He says although allowed in Sharia he would never officiate one. But in the streets around the shrine, some clerics are giving very different advice. Cleric Sayyed Mustafa Salawi says he would be happy to officiate a mutaa marriage between the reporter and a girl the reporter pretends is 12 years old. He is not concerned that the bride is young. According to Sharia, there is no problem Do what you desire.
If you don't like her, there will be a second and a third and so on. Sayyed Raad denied he performed Naughty wives in Fullerton va marriages at all. The others did not respond. Ali, a professional man in his 40s, is one of those who uses clerics to source him women and girls for mutaa marriages.
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Losing your virginity outside marriage carries considerable risk in the country, as it is seen by some Iraqis as tainting family honour. Mona Women want sex Blessing just 14 when she was persuaded into a mutaa marriage with an older man who followed her home from school.
Now several years older, Mona is under pressure from her family to marry, and is terrified her future husband will find out she's no longer a virgin. She says Visting from Honolulu1 and looking hot fun her uncle killed her cousin just for having a boyfriend.
She says she is contemplating suicide. Since the BBC spoke to Mona, she has run away from home. But it's not just girls who are vulnerable to the potentially exploitative tool of mutaa marriages.
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Rana, in her 20s, was divorced by her husband after she Get laid in Bryan Texas to Baghdad five years ago, after militants from the Sunni jihadist group Islamic State [IS] overran her home city.
She had assumed it would be a permanent union.