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Many teenagers settled down into a mix of serial dating and going steady -- being ''popular'' often meant having a highly coveted boyfriend or girlfriend.

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The Internet, Cummings says, has made it possible for heterosexual teenagers to act the way ''most of straight society assumes gay men act. I'd met Emcho he asked me to use his nickname on facethejury.

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Yet for all the resemblance of teenage hookup culture to a 70's singles bar, the old stigmas and prejudices haven't disappeared altogether. Most teenagers who engage in hookups still worry about being discreet.

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At the Valentine's Day gathering, Irene and her friends laid out the unwritten etiquette of teenage hookups: if you want it to be a hookup relationship, then you don't call the person for anything except plans to hook up. You don't invite them out with you. You don't call just to say hi. You don't confuse the matter. You are neither looking to commit to this person nor expect them to commit to you. You and this person are on the same about your FWB relationship. To avoid confusion, hurt feelings, Discreet friendship with mutual benefits misread als, you should be totally forthright and in complete accord with each other about the nature of your relationship.

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